We go to the same college and we ae in ghe same swimming club. I just can't stop looking at her, when she undresses can see her body and god its perfect, her breast especially, i feel so jealous, they are bigger than myüine, not much but bigger and they are in perfect shap, all natural.
She knows i am dating her ex and she is incredibly nice to me and to everyone, after knowing her for 1 year now i can say that her personality is beautiful too.
My boyfriend didn't broke up with her, no she left him. But not because she lost feelings or whatever but because she moved away with her parents and thought she wouldn't come back and she wanted my boyfriend to find some love here. But her father lost his job there and got his old job back and so she moved back.
So it wasn't a bad break up but a breakup with still loving each other.
The worst part for me is, they both lost their virginity together. And this girl, who is 21 (i am 20 and my boyfriend is 22) had only my boyfriend in her life. On a drunken night she told in a game of truth or dare that she only had one guy in her life, even only 1 guy kissed, which was my boyfriend.
I lost my virginity to some old high school classmate and had sex with 6 other guys till i met my boyfriend.
This girls is better in everything than me.
I dont know how i could ever measure up to her.
She and my boyfriend have the same interest and same character.
And she is still in love with him but won't make a move on him while he is together with someone else.
She is perfect for him. I am afraid my boyfriend might still love her even though he didn't do anything to make me think this.
But what if?
I am so insecure.
How can i stop be jealous, insecure?
How can i measure up to her?
Most Helpful Guy
If he is still in love with her, you need to let him go, because he will never be happy with you and you will know that your partner would rather be somewhere else. It is difficult to let go of someone who you still love (I know because I did that in May, 2017.)
Don't you want to be with someone who wants you just as much as you want him? Tell him that he is free to go back to her, you will understand and have no hard feelings, and you will wish both of them good luck.
by the way, when you see someone who you think is perfect and you think they have a perfect life. . . it means that you do not know enough about them. All you know about her is her external appearance and the happy impression that she conveys. You really have no idea what demons she may have. Perhaps she has been abused as a child. Maybe she has bulimia. Maybe she has a congenital metabolic disorder.
Most Helpful Girl
How long ago did they break up after you guys got together? How do you know she was his ex? Why do you know so much about her? How did you guys get together? How does he treat you now she resurfaced? Has he changed for the better? Has he done something for you to doubt he'll leave you anytime for her? I am sorry for all these questions but I need to know more details before I even give my honest opinion. And sorry for you feeling this way.