But this is what's weird. When I'm there, he talks to her like SHE'S the dumb one. He and I talk about politics, education, that type of stuff and when she comments, he like... slows his speech down when he talks to her or will to turn me and say "See, what she doesn't understand..." like she's not even in the room.
I'm not fond of this guy. He's dumped her twice, has been caught talking to girls while still being with her (not lately, but even a year and a half ago, he did this). They want to get married and stuff. I don't know if he knows I don't like him too much, but I can't tell if my friend is making this up or if he really doesn't like me. I don't care if he doesn't, but if she's making it up, why would she do that?
Most Helpful Guy
It seems like she is a little jealous of you and him talking to each other. She wants you to think that her boyfriend doesn't like talking to you so that you stop talking to him. You should probably back off a little from him so that she doesn't end the friendship. Just wait it out a little and see what happens.
Most Helpful Girl
Okay how about you let her know that you are not fond of him and you think she should be with a better guy. If you're actually her friend and care about her then be honest and tell her what you think. Do it calmly and tell her you dont want to start a fight let her know you have good intentions you have her best interest in mind.
Also, why dont you go ahead and stop hanging out with her and her boyfriend together. Just hang out with her alone, dont do the whole 3 is a crowd thing.