I am having hard time finding a guy who will give me more than a date or two to know each before he want me in bed. I am lucky if I can go for 2nd date. I know this could be flattering for some girls but I feel so much pressure to do so. some guys even keep listening to me without saying much then they just want to sleep with me. one of my friends said I am sending the wrong vibe because this doesn't happen that frequent to them ! I am starting not to go out on dates because I feel it end very quick on the same note. Even when I fall in love I find at the end that he just liked my body ! Am I that shallow? I want to experience being in a relationship with a guy like all my other girlfriends ! any advice?