I've been on Tinder forever. Way longer than I wish I was, personally. And I can never seem to get things right when I match with someone. If I ever match at all. It always seems like their interested and the conversation flows but after exchanging numbers or Snapchat or whatever they fizzle away for no explicit reason it seems. Recently it's been emotionally damaging to see how little I match with people and even worse, how few times they will ever respond more than three times if at all. What am I doing wrong? How do I get better at it? I'm not looking for a quick hookup. I'm actively searching for a relationship.