Well there is a definite attraction between us and we had great sex. He loves my company. He also opens up with me and tells me things. He loves my company. We broke things of sexually due to the fact that he doesn't want anything serious. He however wants to hang out platonically. Just wondering what this could mean. I definitely like him and know he likes me too.
It could mean a lot of things and only he knows the true meaning. I can only tell you what it would mean for me. I wonder if he's open to talk about it? Does he never want a relationship or just not ready now? Etc.
He said he isn't fully ready to fully commit. Also said he didn't want to worry about relationship stuff. I said I am not either but would like to be ready.
If you ultimately want a relationship, you've got to be firm. No relationship? No sex.
It was his idea to end things sexually. I know it was really hard for him since things were so hot between us.
I just wonder what his intentions are.. I really like him and don't want to get my hopes up. I feel like he definitely showed respect by doing this.
Right, so you're basically just good friends right now?
Yes, but not sure how that is going to work out for either of us. I am keeping my distance right now to let things settle.
Yeah, I guess it's best to keep your distance so you don't become too attached and see what happens.
Yes, good idea Thanks for your input You have been helpful
No problem. All the best.
Well there is a definite attraction between us and the sex was great. We had a connection between us. We talked about personal things and problems. We however broke things off sexually because he doesn't want anything serious and he knows I do. I told him I respect that you don't want anything serious. He respects that I do. It was his idea to do this. I know that he likes me and I like him. Now we are talking about hanging out platonically. I just wonder what his intentions are. Thoughts?
That's hard to say. It could simply be he misses you and nothing more. But, maybe he thinking otherwise too? Sound like the situation I'm in only I'm you and she's him! lol Only I haven't shared my feelings for her yet.
Lol. I guess I will just have to be his friend and see what happens. Thanks and good luck to both of us!
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Decided to be his friend now. We connected sexually as well as on other things. I really like him and know he likes me.
Just wondering how we are going to be just friends.. I know not either of us wants it to end.
Aha! But now you can play the commitment card. He wants to have his pussy and eat it too... so here's where you can tell him to put his money where his mouth is! Wait it out and see if he can change after all.
Yup, no sex until some type of commitment
Weird though it was his idea
Thoughts on that?
It was his idea to not hang out sexually meaning
Maybe because he doesn't want commitment, but the sex might be making him fall for you. So he wanted a step back? Or maybe he felt you were getting too attached... I dunno, but don't give in and give him what he wants til you get what you want. Would be nice if people just said what they are feeling all the time... no games!
Right, very good advice.. It did seem like he was holding back. I may have also wanted things to happen too much. Maybe we just need to start over.
Yeah just give it a rest and let cooler heads prevail. I'm interested to see what happens so please update me 🤗
Good idea, I am going to keep my distance for awhile and see what happens. You have been very helpful. I will let you know how it turns out. Thanks
You're welcome I hope it works out for you. I look forward to hearing back! Good luck! 👍
Lol, funny because someone said to me once that I was like a unicorn.
He respects my decision to want more. I respect his decision to not want anything serious as well. I just don't want to hold onto false hope.
I guess see what happens unless someone else comes along that wants to be serious
Yes, I will wait and see what happens while keeping an open mind. Thanks for your input