He takes ages to reply to my texts- am I just a back up option?

Anonymous
I have been on a few dates with a guy, and things have been going really well. Previous to our last date, he used to text me constantly. We texted a lot after our last date, but then it suddenly stopped! He didn’t reply to me for 4 days, and then popped back up without even a “sorry that I’m so late to reply.” Now, his responses are once every 24 hours, if that. He was away for a while, but has been back in town for a few days and no mention of another date. When he does text, he asks lots of questions, but the playfulness and flirtation isn’t really there anymore. So my question is, is a guy really that busy or is he just keeping me as an option? Can I ask him what his deal is?
He takes ages to reply to my texts- am I just a back up option?
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