It's actually a huge subject for a couple, and the origin of many fights. For me, my phone is complete privacy, I never asked this to any girl I was with. I don't do anything wrong with other girls or whatever but I can't handle a girl who asks me to look at my phone, my messages, or even to know my passwords. I already had a fight with an ex who did not understand why I did not want to, and thought I was being unfaithful. Is it so hard to understand that I don't want someone (even if she is my gf) to randmoly pick up my phone and spying on my texts, pics, contacts, apps?
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Everyone is entitled to their privacy.
A partner who asks for access to such shows they do not trust you.
No trust, no relationship.
Additionally, when someone is having a conversation with me, they know it's just ME, no one else is reading it.1