I was having a conversation with some of my female friends and the topic of cheating came up. 3 of them said that If their SO cheated on them they wouldn't want to know. I was obviously quiet shook, because I was thinking why wouldn't you want to know. I would even want my SO to tell me that they were thinking about doing it before they do.
But I guess my question is, if your SO cheated on you, would you want to know, even it only happened once? And also, would you tell your SO that you cheated if you knew they wouldn't be able to handle it? And those of you who are in polyamorous relationships, what would you consider as cheating?
I'm curious to hear all your answers.
- YesVote A
- NoVote B
Most Helpful Guy
Yes i want to know so i can dump her faster that a garbage truck.
"oh by please it was only one mistake"... I give more than once chance for most things, but never with this I don't care how much I love her.1
Most Helpful Girl
I would like to know it.0