I also suspected he was seeing other women so I just decided to move on.
Id not heard from him since November. Nothing over Christmas or the new year.
Then yesterday out of the blue he sends me a little pic of himself. No text just a pic.
So far I’ve not responded to him.
Id been happy with our arrangement but since not having heard from him and him suddenly appearing out the blue I’m assuming whoever been keeping him busy isn’t anymore.
I know it was a no strings relationship but it’s kind of lost it’s appeal now.
So should I delete and not reply or tell him straight up I’m not interested now?
Most Helpful Guy
You need to take a step back and reevaluate your feelings towards him. You say he was a "no strings attached" guy, but his behavior is taking much more of a negative toll on you than he should. Anyways, if you only see him as someone you can casually sleep with, then i'd imagine you have other guys too... hence it shouldn't matter if this guy came back or not because you have others.
The only problem here is, he sent you a meaningless text. A "How are you?" would have been much better, and you could have replied with more ease but he didn't do that... reason why you shouldn't reply back. Whether it be casual or not, you still deserve a certain amount of respect... something he is failing to give you.
Most Helpful Girl
Delete. Not worth it