In this day and age however, most girl's I have spoken to think that being this way is dated and kind of patronising.
I was just looking for thoughts and opinions from girls to see if a guy being a gentleman is important to them.
Especially in a relationship.
Most Helpful Girl
If you look at it as being polite and you treat everyone with respect then you cannot go wrong. Although you can always bring this up as the topic of conversation when on the phone or messaging before the actual first date. Very casually you can say “hey, the feminist movement thats happening is very interesting, although I have to admit that I have a lot to learn.”
Most Helpful Guy
depends on what type of "gentleman" you are.
The point of those lessons was for you to be respectful of women, don't treat them as inferiors.
so, if girls want respect in that you treat them as equals, then being a gentleman becomes doing that.