Is he the real deal?

Firstly, I want to say when I met my now boyfriend he told me this was his second date ever (when we met) . He is such a nice guy... I can't with him he makes me so happy and I really like him. But I don't feel pretty enough for him, so with that said. I don't have the confidence or the will power to give a kiss or initiate anything except for a hug. We have a lot of silences of where we just don't talk. But he seems to like me a lot. He sent me a heart today in text. He's a shy fella, is a gentleman, holds the door open for me. He always seems so nervous and anxious around me. We met online, he reached out to me. We still haven't kissed or anything, I really want too but I am bad at making decisions. Is this normal? Will we eventually get comfortable with each other? We only get together once or twice each week. How can I kiss him w/o being nervous... Also I have another question. My sister and mom are drop dead gorgeous, and I am on the other hand am super chubby/fat. My sister has a great body, and gets all the attention in the family. There's so much prettier girls out there that he could've easily gotten. Why does he like me? He told me he loves everything about me. He's so amazing, he's wonderful. My sister has big breasts, and is slim where every guy flirts with her... and I feel unconfident and my self esteem is low whenever I am with her... cause nobody gives me the time of day. She always gets complimented. My grandpa called me pudgy and he said "my god look at your belly and arms" And "Outta put you on a diet" and then walked over to my sister and said "You always looked good" then told my brother the same. You don't even know how much I fucking try to lose weight and it doesn't work for me... I will never be good enough for anyone.. Why does my boyfriend like me anyways? I feel like he won't like me after he meets my sis.

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  • If i were you i would stop caring what people think because if he is really your boyfriend meeting your sister wouldn’t change the way he feel about you or his attraction towards you. You should ask him why he’s with you and if he can name reasons why then that will boost your confidence and you will feel better about your relationship and won’t care about how beautiful your sister is.

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  • Just kiss him! Or move in real close like you're going to kiss him, then stop and see if he makes the first move

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