However, I noticed after we came back, things changed. The communication decreased, we did not see eachother for 3 weeks. I confronted him through text about it and he basically said he gets attached to people easily and he has a lot of things going on in his life at the moment with work, family and financial problems. He's going away in late February on vacation and he told me he has to work and pay off his bills and save for the vacation.
After that happened, we went to the movies and I spent the night at his house. The evening went well, he was sweet and affectionate. After I went home, a few days later things went back to the same thing. I sent him a text last week saying that I'm tired of the games and I'm done. He said he's been really busy with work, and he has a lot on his hands. I just don't know what to make of this situation. In the beginning he told me he wants me to be his girlfriend eventually. Now, I have no idea where I stand with him. I really like him but I don't want to waste my time. Should I end it? Or wait it out?
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Unfortunately, patterns like this don't typically get better. Probably best to cut your losses if you don't want to be second to whatever else he has going on