How would you feel about ur S. O. being someone that was in trouble with the law a lot as a youth?
What Girls Said 17
As a criminal justice major and future k9 officer, id have some concern, but id like to know the facts before I come to conclusions. I understand people mess up. At that age, kids are their worst because they are figuring things out and sometimes get with the wrong crowd. Id have a long talk with you and evaluate at the end how it effects our relationship.
Everyone makes mistakes in their lives. What's important is whether or not they learned the lesson.
I wouldn't see this as a problem, only if it was something serious, child molestation, rape, murder etc. If not then you're all good bruh 😉
Your past is your past. Builds character ! I was a law bending little fucker... Lol got into all sorts of shit. But it molded me into the fun loving open minded mother of two that I have become today. I don't break the law now and have no interest to. But I wouldn't change a thing from my youth. I LIVED. If my husband can't take that I was a bad ass. He can't take me
So unless u killed someone, raped and beat someone. Let it go. Can't do anything about it. What's it matter today?
Uhhh, I guess it depends in part on what laws were broken.
I can certainly respect a person that turned their life around. I think that’s just a great story and a person that fixes shit maybe deserves more respect than most. Here are some things though that would prevent me from getting into a relationship even if I respected a person though. So I guess the answer is it depends on the crimes.
Don't care. Whatever he did could have been caused by his mental state and he wouldn't know how to handle it so it then resulted in him/her being in trouble. I have the same problem
i mean, the past is in the past right, people change. I've had a rough childhood too, so I can kinda empathizs
It would only bother me if my s/o would continue the behavior that got them in trouble. If they're doing things different and it's truly left in the past we can move forward.
I wouldn't care because he may he may have been the cause of his past but I'll be the reason for his future
I would say come here let me protect you and take you under my wing cause you are mine now and i am ready to walk through hell with you.
No 11 years is along time ago. People change. I wouldn’t hold it against a guy.
We all have a past
I would be a bit skepticle, but I don't judge.
Past is the past
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