I asked him what did he want to do! He said it doesn't matter!
I asked would you like to go to a movie, dinner etc. He said whatever you wanna do!
So I asked again trying to get him to contribute something! I asked him are you driving to me or am I driving to you? What time do you wanna meet? You got a favorite restaurant? All He said was it doesn't matter, whatever you want to do!
I'm getting the feeling that he just doesn't give a shit. Should I even give a shit? Or should I just say fuck it, not plan anything and more on?
Most Helpful Guy
I think you're just making a big deal out of nothing. Just go with the flow and see what happens. Ride the wave. 😂
I know most women want men to take decisions for them, but the whole "it doesn't matter" he gave you seems an advantage for you, if you ask me. How can you drop him? Are you for real?
It's like someone would offer you your dream car and they'll ask you "hey, are you coming to pick it up or do you want us to deliver it to your doorstep" and you'd be "naaah, nevermind, I don't want it anymore if you don't put any condition". Seriously?
How about the "fight for your dreams", how about feminism and all? I bet you post about that on Instagram (it's a conservative bet: 90% of you girls do it). Stop being a "monkey see, monkey post" but when it's about to "monkey do" you want others to do it for you... 😒 So stop acting dumb and ask a less retarded friend what to do.
For instance (if you ask me), I sometimes take first date girls to the ER Hospital's rooftop cafeteria. It's a high-rise building (probably top 10; say top 20 😂) and you can see most of the city from there. Also the food is great (because it's patients-oriented) and not so expensive (being a cafeteria). I had 100% success. There are even pigeons there you can feed! And the thing is it's not open 24/7, so in the late summer evenings you can just grab a blanket and a couple of beers, climb up there, see the beautiful sunset lying dormant on a char, cuddle under the blanket and bend her over the railing. That could just be the highest (lol) and most romantic public sex those girls got.
I discovered the place several years ago when my father had a rather easy surgery.
So what I'm trying to say is show him you're smart. Take him where no girl will ever take him. I remember the look in my girls' eyes when we were there. One of them even said she doesn't want to leave, lol!
Stop seeing the ugly in things. Just because he doesn't take action you are tempted to bail out? See the beauty in it. Call him to your city and take him somewhere nice. Maybe even on top of a nearby hill for a picnic. A girl doing that to me would definitely blow my mind. Yeah, maybe the outside temperature is against that this time of year, but you got the point.
Third suggestion (and a seasonal one): take him to an ice rink. Don't tell him from the start. Surprise him. You'll fall and hug just too many times to not develop something out of it. Add some hot chocolate to it and you're welcome. 😜
Most Helpful Girl
I don’t think he really seems interested he’s just like “ okay “
And never know if he is meeting up with other women