Anyway, we have another male coworker who me and him roast each other. We make fun of each other and stuff. All in good fun. Well, he took it a little farther and called me a...(the word you'd use for a girl who sleeps around A LOT). And I just shook my head. Well, my crush defended me and told him not to be calling me that.
My thing is, my crush makes all these comments about my boobs and stuff. Yet he gets defensive when a guy calls me a (well, you know). What's up with that?
Most Helpful Guy
He probably figured that most girls with nipple piercings and covered in tattoos aren't going to be shy about showing off their bodies.
Sounds like he's just being flirty and again, there are certain assumptions to be made about tattooed and pierced girls being a bit more adventurous. Plus you know, he is your crush and all.
Beyond that, there's no real connection between him doing that and him defending you from what he thought was another guy putting you down.
He can defend you but also want to see your goods at the same time.
Most Helpful Girl
If he calls you a slut, distance yourself. Period.