When we first started dating, he told me he wasn't much of a phone user. This kind of shocked me, but I sort of liked it. Now, it's driving me up the wall.
Every day, for the past six months, just to get a conversation going, he'll ask me how my day was. Take note, he always starts the conversation. It's sweet and it's a nice way to show he cares. But he'll text me that at 7 PM and I'll respond at 7:10 PM, then the next message I receive from him is at 12 PM that says goodnight. This makes me a little upset though because I'll see him on the 'snap map' (it sounds stalkerish, sorry) and it says he was on like 2 minutes ago after I sent my message. Some nights we'll have full blown out conversations but usually, the three text message conversation over Snapchat is 50% of the time.
I have talked about it and he even knows he's horrific at responding. He showed me how gets hundreds of notifications on Snapchat every day because he doesn't respond, but I feel like I should be responded to a little bit more. This causes me emotional stress even though it shouldn't, but when we're together in person I'm the happiest girl in the world.
I shouldn't have to feel like my boyfriend is ignoring my texts, right?
Most Helpful Girl
He already told u he's a bad texter. If he didn't warn you, I would say he's ignoring you but that's just his way of communication.. So you shouldn't feel upset, especially that he pays u a lot of attention whenever u hang out.
Most Helpful Guy
You are getting upset over somthing that he warned you about from the start