The guy I am dating will not flirt or compliment me. What is going on?
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Give him some more time. To my knowledge, there is no mandatory time table in black and white for relationship progression. If the behavior continues after a few more weeks, start to dial down your behavior and see if this affects his.
Well if your going on a second date I'd say that's a good sign but I'd bring it to his attention that he's kind of giving you the cold shoulder. Just maybe bring it up in a joking way so you don't sound serious or bothered about it. He could just be trying to feel you out still. Maybe he's not sure how he feels about you yet and he wants to take it slow. Maybe he needs to get to know you better before he gets flirtatious. I think he's still trying to feel you out and see what your about. Some people don't want to jump straight in. Some people need a trial period to see if they are compatible before they try to take things to seriously flirting to some people is taking a step towards being a couple so it's a bigger deal to some people than it is to others). I'd never intentionally flirt with someone like that if I want sure if I liked them yet so I wouldn't lead them on.
He could be testing the waters and doesn't want to push you and make a bad move. He may act more bold after the 2nd date
He's either autistic or not seriously interested in you
He's possibly dead
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