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I'm pretty sure there's many of us who are still into nice guys dude...
I keep being told I'm to nice and get broken up with
Well that depends on what they mean by "too" nice... Do you let them walk all over you?
No I know when to say no but I'm always there to help make there life easier isn't that my job as a man to take care of my women
Yes it is your job! Look, I'm not going to play the blame game here and say it's yoir fault or theirs... but one thing I know is that if things keep happening to you then you're doing something wrong... Maybe wrong judgement of character, like you keep dating girls who are unappreciative, selfish, and are into bad boys.
I can't argue with you there. I'm not one to put blame on people I just generally think of it as I'm not the right fit or I did something wrong what ever what not. I know there good women out there I'm just unable to find them but I have my daughter she's my everything and all I will need. I raise her right my life was a success
There you go! You have an amazing daughter and making sure she goes the right path in life, that's fantastic really. You have no idea how many women like guys like you who are responsible and mature enough to raise a daughter all on your own. See when people say there's plenty of fishes in the sea, it doesn't mean that you're going to be able to catch one immediately. Sometimes of course if you're lucky, you'll catch one the moment you start fishing, but most of the time you need patience and time to catch one. Same thing with women, there's a lot of us, but not all of us are ready for guys like you. Trust me, you'll find her. Just be patient
Yea I don't know kinda cursed with bad luck in that department but I still try just try less and less
Just stop looking, she'll come to you. It's funny how this works most of the time. When you keep looking for something, you can't seem to find it. But once you stop, it finds you😂
Yea it's funnybthat way i agree but I will probably turn down ever girl who trys I don't habe much confidence in myself afee all I have been threw. I just want to make sure I save my daughter the same pain teach her how to take care of herself so she never needs a man to do anything for her. I can teach her how to repair walls Windows cars electrical device's she will never need anyone. Plus I have the added bonus since she was to she has helped daddy work on cars handing me wrenches. I'm blessed how much that girl loves me I only want to find a women not only to make me happy but can teach her things I can not I do understand I'm a guy I don't know how to be a women I only know how to be a man.
I’m sure no girl wants a guy that uses and cheats..
I don't know tell that to my last 4 ex's who cheat on me with a guy that uses cheated and or abused them
The real question is, why were you dating cheaters? Did they show no signs of being untrustworthy?
No she never did and as far as I know I'm the only guy she has my last ex's I expected to but not her
Well, I think you should just go for different girls, in general.
I try to but after everything in been threw I'm done trying. I'm gonna focus on custody of my kid and raising her right.
How do you try? That’s very noble of you.
I try by gettingvout of my comfort zone try dating someone different then the last also take my time getting to know them. Just doesn't seem to be any different I know I'm a good guy but guess not what is the in thing anymore
Where are you meeting them?
That's could also be the problem I meet them online due to the fact I have problems in crowed areas from Afghanistan
Have you tried therapy to help with that?
Yes currently in it but not really helping I also go out just to help me with it
Maybe you need to see someone else or get medication. I’m glad you go out, as that should help. Maybe start by going to moderately crowded places and then very crowded ones once you get used to the former. I hear guys meet women at coffee shops, so try meeting someone there.
I don't really go up and talk to women I'm rather timid at first
You can try changing that. There are some instances where you can make the meeting seem like an accident, so that you don’t have to go up and talk to them. Do you have friends that could introduce you to someone?
I have very few friends well w really I'm hanging with one where she works at a bar but I'm ok thank you for the help but I have given up finding someone and just focusing on getting custody of my daughter and making sure she grows up right
As you should, but don’t forget to take care of your needs as well.
My daughters happiness is all I need
lol Okay, she’s lucky. Good luck to you.
Thank you for caring but I have hard life it's a miracle I am who I am today but its choices I have made to be this way I feel to broken to try agian. I have been threw so much pain I just want to save my daughter
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