If a girl says she's never dated before, at what age does that start to become weird?


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  • My opinion is somewhere around 25. Different people mature at different rates and have different interests so I don't think it's too unusual to go into your early 20s. After about 25 though, I'd start thinking the person either has no interest in finding a partner or has some personality characteristics that keeps them from being able to find someone that will date them.

    At your age (assuming the 21 is accurate), I don't think it's a problem. Have you been focused more on other things (like college or starting a career) or nervous about dating or just haven't found the right person yet?

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    • It's a combination of things I suppose. There's never been a guy who's expressed a real romantic interest in me. But right now I'm focused on getting into medical school

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    • It bothers me a lot. I have plenty of theories but I don't really know the answer. My friends tell me I'm worried for no reason

    • Since it's bothering you a lot, it would be good to try to figure it out so you can change whatever you need to change. No point in sitting around being frustrated and not doing anything about it. If you'd like to discuss more I'll be glad to try to help you figure out what to do.

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  • none. If she hasn't dated before she should consider herself lucky because she had had less heart break and damage. although the sooner one can settle down the better

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  • Never. Dont feel obligated to speak about thinga u dont want. A simple why do you care woukd be more than enough.

    But if u are worried about people's thoughts ask yourself. Does any of these people pay my bills? Or do they care about my opinion?

    I say this a lot but... Simplify.

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  • Depends on what country, even part of country, she lives in.

    In the US, Canada, UK, Oz, it would be weird if she hasn't had a date by the time she graduates college. For those that don't go to college, it might be weird if she doesn't have two kids by 21.

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  • Never. Everyone has their story. I wouldn't judge anyone based on whether or not they have dated before.

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  • At about 30 years old it becomes weird, but I don't think it'd ever become a problem.

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  • Depends on the culture. In the US, anything after college.

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  • Above 25. When the education is finished and started with work.

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  • It’s never weird. Whoever said there is a certain age is waste

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  • Around my age.

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  • In the US, somewhere around 30.

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  • 25 and up

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  • 25 lol

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  • I’m 20 and never dated

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  • It doesn't become weird everyone is different

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  • i guess in the late 20s xD

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  • Post 25

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  • Somewhere around age 34.

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  • I think late teens

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  • 40 years

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  • I'm 20 never dated or anything

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  • 40 plus

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  • At no age is it weird.

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