I've known for a while I was pregnant and I couldn't bring myself to tell him. He's always said he doesn't want kids right now but when we got back together he said he wanted to be a father figure to my son.
I don't know what to do. I want to tell him so badly sometimes but I'm scared.
I don't know how he'll react. I can't afford another child and I know he's not mature enough to handle one. Not financially either.
I want to terminate but I feel awful about not telling him but I know it would probably be a mistake if I did tell him.
Any guys have any advice for me? Does he mean what he says if he sleeps with someone else there's nothing there?
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It is easier for men to have meaningless sex than women.
To answer you main question... you are being unfair to the father by aborting his kid without telling him. He has a right to know and the kid has the right to not be aborted. If you cannot handle another kid, you should have kept it in your pants.