I’m dating a guy (finally) after 4 months of trying to be with him. He and I dated for a week before he decided to tell me he didn’t want to be in a relationship. Anyways, after those 4 months of trying, I decided I didn’t want to be with this guy. He decided simultaneously, that he wanted to be with me. We’ve now started dating and have been for only a month. He has already said he loves me and that freaked me out. Now I don’t know if I want to be with him or in a relationship at all. But at the same time, I have started having feelings for one of my friends. I don’t know what to do and I hope someone will have some decent advice?