Why do guys from high school contact me now that I'm in college?

So there are some guys (like 4) that I never spoke to in high school, but now that I'm in college away from them (I'm a freshman in a university two hours away from home) suddenly they all message me and want to talk!
Why did they not talk to me in high school or reach out then? Is this normal?

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  • They were probably nervous around you in school. Also, it's hard dating someone in the same school because rumours spread quickly

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  • Sometimes being in a public setting can make people feel uneasy when it comes to starting up a conversation with someone they might be attracted to

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  • From my perspective I lost contact with a lot of my friends when I graduated. They are probably lonely and want a female to help them feel less lonely

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  • They've finally matured to the point where they can approach you.

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  • Pretty much because now you grew up and are "more" woman and that's attractive and also puberty might have something to do with it

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  • Maybe I should have done it too.

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