A guy (some) puts more effort into a relationship in the beginning to woo her but then when he's gotten her that dies down. What can I do? Should I be more distant? Not answer him as often? Not see him as often?
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Yes, very familiar to that issue.
The bad way is to distance from or reject or even break up with your guy.
The proper way is to keep your relationships advancing. Good example "Sweetheart, who you think I am to you?" - "You're my love, sugar" - "Why is your sugar love wearing the same cloth for two weeks?" <--- add there tropical vacations, car, house, etc.
You are to direct him to a self improvement and making you a proposal. If the guy is not improving (strange, but) it's partially your fault. You turn your relationship in a game, where you are a prize he's always to try to win. Then you're happy.
Also check the classic novel regarding this