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well, I don't blame all males. I just blame guys from my country for being too shallow and only liking girls that don't look anything like girls from their country. them liking girls who look different from their country isn't the problem, It's totally cool. appreciate beauty in all forms. but the problem is that all of them have the exact same taste and see any different looking girl as ugly, non feminine and undesirable. and many of them just keep bullying girls. and tell them if they don't fit in that narrow standard, they would be ugly and nobody will like them. and that IS what actually happening many girls try to change the way they look just to find someone that likes them. I look like the exact opposite of the stupid pretty girl look all guys search for in their future partners. and I'll never change anything in my looks for anyone, no matter who they are.so I decided that I'll never look for a partner from my own nationality.either they like me for me, or **** off of my face.
What will «stupid pretty girl look»?
I know what you mean. Beauty standards for females are - big eyes with long lashes, small nose, perky lips, small face, light- medium skin tone, perfect long hair, big boobs, small waist, big butt & hips, doesn't speak their language. 😂
It's possible to like different things... And to call someone stupid to like something is more stupid. I like what you said, but it's not always about looks...
@Clarke498 I literally know a guy that dumped his girlfriend bc he found another girl with lighter skin...and all the guys in my class like only one girl in our class just bc she is light skinned
I usually blame myself. If I ask a girl out and get rejected I usually think i'm too boring and or not good looking enough.
It's probably cause you aren't good looking enough... it happened to a guy I like now he treats me like shit... SMH
I'm just saying when he randomly told me about the girl he was hanging out with or gonna hang out with... an I told him why don't go out with her and he said tired but she said from what he told me is she wasn't attracted to him that's what he gets...🤷
Never mind you good looking to me though just saying 😏
@PetrovaFire92 thank you, I appreciate the compliment, I want to take more chances this year and meet more women. got any style advice?
Wear a leather jacket and sun glasses :) be poetic and charming 😎
@PetrovaFire92 appreciate it
Nah, I'm pretty sure my lack of success is my own fault.
No. I never have.
Yeah at first until I start really dwelling on what the fuck happened during the entirety of the relationships I've been in and analyzing them for a few days in my head and comparing it to what flaws I have. Then I start to realize, it probably was just as much my fault as it was hers. Or I could have should have don't this or that to make things right.
It's immature to blame others for our own failures. I've never been that kind of immature, but my own failures aren't the only reasons for my being rejected, overlooked or ignored; not by a long shot. I hold women responsible for their own promises, assertions, idioms, and allusions... same as I do men. Women are absolutely no less likely to lie, exaggerate, misrepresent, manipulate and deceive than men are. They definitely want us to believe they're inherently more altruistic and virtuous though.
Nah.. it's totally my fault a lot of women are shallow and judge me based on my income, social status, muscles, willingness to be dominant when I'm submissive, willingness to be a provider when I don't want a sugar baby and so forth. Yep! *Totally* my fault :)It's not like I'm looking for anyone to judge me based on my personality or ideas on life or anything. Pfft! Who's interested in philosophy when you can have a rich porn star of a man who's eternally in the "bad boy" phase of his life?
in what sense exactly? i blame my ex who was a terrible human being for our relationship not working out lmao other than that, i think i take responsibility for my dating life being boring haha
Yup... Really hard to find to find a girl that doesn't judge you based on the size of your wallet, your possessions or your social status, not egotostical, is physically attractive and likes me for me. And the ones that are all of the above are usually taken or just consider themselves outta my league. So... the only way to get girls is to build myself a stable life and make others envious of what I'm doing.
''blessed to be a very attractive woman that all straight men want to have.''https://giant.gfycat.com/PlainBackEquestrian.gif
Yo I'm crying lol
I blame them for ruining my life, I could give a fuck about dating them. My reasons for hating men is the reason don't talk to other girls, I don't share their sentiments on that. Men cannot make me happy and chase me just to ruin my life, when that doesn't work they make being single a living hell. So yeah, I blame them for making me unhappy.
Depends what you mean. I am attractive but sometimes I am not happy with that and it is hard to meet someone who is special and really cares about your soul.
I don't remember ever doing that. It seems like that's all young "men" do these days is get mad at women for not wanting to date crybabies.
@crosswordsWow, obviously you are the model of the real man. Talk a bunch of trash and then block someone so they don't hurt your manly feelings.
I do not. Every girlfriend I've had, she was the one pursuing me. I didn't have to deal with that until now. And yet, it's no one's fault
Let me guess, that crybaby blocked you too. 😁
I don't know
I don't "blame" them for anything, it's not there fault. I anticipate certain behaviors from women but I don't blame them because they are women, I just accept that (the women I date) have different thinking than me
Nope, it's 100% my own fault I'm single and fucked up any chances I've had.
Only when it has been justified. I have met some crazy women in my time. Most of the time though my failures have been my fault.
Subconsciously, yeah, I hate to admit it. Consciously, I know I set my own destiny and that's I've approached the rest of my life quite successfully. However, deep down, I do have a bit of resentment for not being considered desirable.
Subconciously, i do blame them for a little bit. But after i realise, it's nobody's fault. Besides blaming people can be dangerous & lead to unhealthy behavior
Nah, I just have a habit of picking the wrong guys.
Just choose better choices of guys not the same caliber of guys!
The guys were different and proved to be disappointing in different ways. I wouldn't say they were of same caliber.
Please dont be so high & might when u meet a nice guy?
Just your attitude alone saying all straight men want you makes me not like or want you.
No when I date I am myself it's take it or leave it , I want someone to like me for me
Have I ever? Yes of course. I was a raging "nice guy" for a long time. Now I only blame myself, and rightfully so.
I usually blammed myself. Even if I did nothing wrong or they did nothing wrong.
No cause I always blame myself, guys isn't the problem
I can't fault someone for not being attracted to me, but I can fault them for being a dick about it.
I don't do blame; I do failure analysis.
never I don't blame others
No, that would be stupid.
Yes but only in the heat of the moment
No. What the hell, who does that?
I noticed plenty of men who blame women for their failures.
Plenty of women who do the same thing. What's your point, or are you just trying to show us your man hating tendencies?
Don't shoot the messenger. Men these days are waaaaay more guilty of thing this than women.
@yousir Are you that thirsty and desperate to be a white knight that you would sell out your own sex in order to try and gain the favour of a person called @TAMPAXgirl? Do you seriously hate yourself that much? Women blame men for their failures fucking plenty. Clearly you've never had a relationship, or a even a friend.
Go fuck yourself. I don't need some pity thank you from some random girl. You just seem to be confused about how a lot of other people act. I'm not saying you specifically do this. Men, in general, are not being taught to be men anymore.
If you don't then you are the exception; and while I may not like you, I respect you for that.
@yousir I'm confused about how people react? Are you fucking stupid? This chick just came on here to take the piss out of men probably because she acted the fool and got told off. So of course she races on here to have a sook and here you are racing to her fucking defence like a race traitor.Stop changing the subject. If you want to be a white knight cuck go do it in your own reply and stop replying to mine. I couldn't care less whether or not you think I don't know what I'm talking about. I'm married clown. Check my profile and keep to being a cuck in your own space thanks.
Society puts a lot of shame in being a true man. It's proven that we have 25 precent less testosterone than our grandparents. Women still want a manly man regardless of what they say or describe
Seriously complaining about how men aren't taught to be men and here you are throwing away your masculinity in defence of some female's unjustified moaning. Irrational women blame men all the time for their own failures.
I was actually talking about both parties. I've heard men and women blaming people about that. Which I can somehow understand. But I can not justify. I replied with the case of why men complain. I'm women, they just are either giving away the wrong signals, or choosing purposely a guy they know will play with them (in most cases). Either way.
Wow, you're fucking sure of yourself aren't you
I only blame myself for my poor chooses.
We'll make mistakes in life!
Naw not really unless we love & in-love with each other...
Stop picking bad boy unless u're a bad girl urself?
When I was VERY young
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