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If I was to have a relationship with a young girl, it would be long term only, and her maturity and sticking to decisions would greatly affect if I wanted to be with her or not.
A young woman (no matter how attracted to an older man) will always be hesitant bc they probably are only using her for sex
I think it is more common for younger men to use her for sex.The thing they really need to be prepared for with an older guy is he may want to settle down, start living together, and having a family/kids with her within a couple years.So if she wants something serious and lasting with an older guy, she should consider that.
Sounds believable... I don't believe in hookup culture. Why else would a man be a bachelor in his 40s?
Could have had bad past experiences and stayed single for a while just not wanting to deal with other people.Maybe he wants to find someone with very similar moral beliefs, especially if he wants to raise a family together, but even if he finds that, he still needs to be attracted to her and have a few things in common they would enjoy doing together (outside the bedroom). I personally would prefer to find someone 9 + years younger because I frequently disagree with the morals and actions of many women from around my own generation.
There's this guy I have in mind.. we're 21 years apart, and I think the attraction is mutual. But the cherry on top is that we both work in the same industry (one nobody wants anything to do with) so the fact that we're involved in the same line of work already kinda sparks something
That's good. You already have something in common then.
In israel thats how it goes.My little sister who is 26 is married to a 39 years old guy...My little sister is now 22 and used to being 30 year old guys when she was 17-18 to Friday dinners here, when the whole family was here.. (Over 20 people easily).In Israel its well known that msture men go with younger girls, but Israeli men are more mature in my opinion as well, cause army changes women and men when they are 18.. Drastically.So no one would look at you "funny"..Women at age 17-22 here almost never go with kids at their age...
Women find social status and competency incredibly attractive. Women almost UNIVERSALLY like older men.Best algorithm that I use when calculating age gap is: (your age) /2 + 8At 20 - >18 is the youngest a man/woman should dateAt 30 - > 23 is the youngestAt 40 - > 28 is the youngest, so on so forth.Try to stay in these ranges if you want to be taken seriously and not just treated like an object. Because trust me, an old man would love to have a young girl as his toy. But that isn't what you want eh?
No. To all the questions you asked in this post. No, older men are not likely to take you seriously; that's why they are dating young girls, they don't usually want to settle down because their prior marriages have already collapsed. No, your maturity has nothing to do with your attraction to older men; that's just a desire to be treated like a lady.
What you prefer is the better ability of mature guys to provide and to protect. It has nothing to do with your "maturity". Rather to the contrary. it's your demand for feeling safe and comfy. Like a child.
You look 25
Sorry, I'm 57. My looks was always younger than I was :)
Ans I had for most of the time girls between 10 and 20 years younger than me. I know them :)
My girlfriend is in your age range; we'd take you seriously if you acted seriously. I've no issues with a younger partner; in fact, I'm probably more concerned than she is. But we get along well and it works, so why not?
May I ask how old you are? And why would you be the more insecure one?
I think you could be taken seriously as a long term partner, as for why you like older men.. There could be a lot of reasons for that.
Possible. Or maybe you just older men because of the experienced factor.
I don't know why you prefer them, but I'm sure a lot of older men would be interested.
How original of you👏🏼
You asked if they would take you seriously. Yes. How much originality does that require.
Not I what?
The reason is because your dad didn't love you enough.
Yes ur maturity is v important to a mature guy. Have u dated older guys yet? PM reply if u prefer
I haven't really dated at all. At work I'm around mature people, and it only feeds the desire more. I have however seen many older guys who act immature though.
Oh i dont doubt that there are imnature older guys. But hopefully few n far between.
Yeah I know some one in your age group that is very mature and likes older guys
Well typically submisive people prefer people older to them and im sure if you acted smatt they definitely would
Well be careful they don't abuse you or anything
Depend's on ur likings to not only maturity
Nah, it's just an attraction.
It's not maturity; it's hypergamy.
I find women over estimate their maturity
Nothing wrong with that. I like older guys
I'm very immature
Sure why not...
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