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I'd say chances are here is doing something he knows you wouldn't like. If you wait for him to come back and he does, he will always feel like he can do whatever he wants and you will just wait for him. He'll use you. Thats what a lot of us guys do. It sucks so bad, but there it is anyway. 😕
Doing something like what?
Weigh your options:1) wait: you could be waiting forever2) contact him: you might find out what's going on, or you might not.3) forget it: you are free to live your life as you please!
Don't guys contact you if you act like you don't care
Uh... who told you that?
That's what I heard, why
I asked a girl out earlier this week to go to a movie Wednesday, and she replied with a thumbs-up... I have nothing to go on, so I haven't replied...
Okay I would take that as a yes but how does that relate to my situation
I got the impression that she didn't care. Why would I reply?
Because maybe she was busy
And I'm.. supposed to reply? What I'm saying is that he's not going to contact you if he feels you're not interested.
How does he think I'm not interested if I contacted him but he ignored it
You didn't say that in your question. Knowing that, maybe you should try to contact him, just to make sure... but I dunno.
Make sure what
(Make sure he's not an apache attack helicopter of course!) Make sure he's not actually ghosting you. See if he responds if you message him again. I don't know. Make sure of whatever you're unsure of.
We'll is calling better
No. Unless you've already had conversations with him over the phone, a message is probably enough.
But see he ignored my messages
Then he's ignoring you, and you have to move on.
I want to know why
Wouldn't that be nice. Part of moving on is brushing those questions under the rug.
Look, I've been there. We all want to know why our crush doesn't seem to notice us. The best we can do is be confident in ourselves and trust in the future.
We haven't moved on in years that's why I hardly think this is the end
He is more than a crush
If you aren't going to follow our advice, why are you asking us?
He might be more than a crush, but unless you married the guy, ghosting is still ghosting.
I'm just telling you it's been years and you think he's going to end it now?
How long has it been since he's contacted you?
I don't know weeks
Yep, looks like he ghosted you. Sorry girl.
After years? You think this is the end?
Unless you have another way to get in touch with him, yes, possibly. Time means nothing without commitment...
No answer is an answer too.Move on and dont waste one more thought on him. No guy who would care and respect you would play games like this.
I known him for years, I don't know what the reason is
Seriously, move on. Dont ever chase a guy. Thats such childish behaviour. Why you wanna be with a little kid?
No I known him forever but I don't know what is up
Congratulations, you've earned the "no context achievement".
There is a little bit of context
I feel you're best option is to reach out to him and see what happens. That way you can say you tried.
I did try though
He ignored my one text
Contact him.If he hasn’t responded to your message then move on. If anything.. the silly thing could be that he is waiting for you to text him while you’re waiting for him to text him
But he ignored my last couple texts
For how long?
Ok then move on. He sounds like he ghosted on you
For what reason
Not sure. It happens unfortunately
Move on.But when u encounter him ask just casually y he did that.
People has busy lives and forget. Try again and if nothing then you'll have your anser.
If he's not giving you any reply then, move on. He ain't worth the wait.
Don't wait if you do it once he will think you will do it again
Contact him and if he didn't respond or try back then leave
Just text him a simple, "how are you?" And wait.
I did a week ago
Did he answer?
No he didn't
I would let it go then. I wouldn't waste putting a lot of energy in pursuing people who don't want to be with me or even communicate with me. If they change their mind and decide to respond later, be open and friendly, but give your time to those who make time for you.
don't wait just contact him
If he's ignoring you then move on.
This is unlike him tho
Trust me, if he was interested he'd get back to you. Especially if he knows that you're interested in him as well.
have you considered asking him?
I haven't yet he hasn't replied to my prevous texts so I don't know what to do
If you like him, then go ahead
No. If he went MIA it was for a reason
Why I want to know what his deal is
He doesn’t respect you it should be obvious
How do we know
He won’t communicate with you. You’re not real bright are you?
Ask him about it
You think I should even though he's been ignoring me
Yes I do
How come? All the other people are saying I shouldn't care
Because they are numb and week from the hookup culture , they do not understand , because love and care in that way doesn't existThey want you to thizzle and hookup with who ever and not try and be all fucking lame and cold and jaded , drink a beer fuck a stranger
So why do you think he's ignoring me?
He could simply not be interested,Or he is playing hard to get
How would he not be interested last time I saw him he took me on a date.And he would still be playing hard to get if he's ignoring my texts?
Maybe he didn't pay his phone bill had to get another phone didn't know his own number and lost all ability to contact you. It happened to me and I couldn't find the girl for years then she found me and thought I was an asshole.
That has never happened to him.He answered one of my texts but ignored the others
Is that still playing hard to get?
No if he lost his phone and can't find you , it means he lost you , he might be searching for you.
I considered that but that never happened to him before
It's absolutely happened to me I was devastated , we started talking I got her number , lost it and lost her again we had been dating of and on since childhood, she thought I wasn't interested , and by the time I found her again she had moved on , I also got traumatic brain injury and forgot , it's still very sad to me It's truly beyond tragic. But it's possible, not likely but possible
I'm sorry, and I don't think that happened but you never know
So what should I do about it
It depends on how much you want to be with a man, is it worth it to wait till you find out.
I don't know what is better, I don't want to come across as needy or something to him
I would love a girl to seek me out , of course there was a time where I wasn't so smart and didn't know how to act
Well I did seek him out and he ignored me so I know if you contact a guy too much they'll think you're needy or clingy
Look, if my ex who I love dearly contacted me, who I said was needy clingy. I would be so happy , but I pushed her away because my life was dangerous and didn't want her to be involved. I actually love the shit out of how she loved me.Maybe he just can't have you in his life right now , try laterHe might be so totally interested.
So if he's totally interested why not answer me?And if he couldn't have me in his life right now why take me out on dates?
In my situation it would be to show I care when I had the chance.For him I don't know you will need to contact him.
What do you mean to show you CARE?
Just contact the man or move on
Over the phone is better right? If through text, what should I say so he will definitely respond?
No in person is better
But be prepared for rejection. If the guy isn't like me. And is purposely ignoring you.But at least you will have closer and be and to know to move forward.
He never did this
Hit him up
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