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Yeah even if it's a girl who likes him. Obviously I wouldn't trust the girl since she likes him but I trust my boyfriend to say no if she were to make a move.
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I'm currently single, but if I was in a relationship, I absolutely would not allow her to hug other people. If she didn't like that she would be free to leave. Of course, I'm no hypocrite, so from that day forth, I'd never hug another woman besides her either.
Im fine with it. But then I see huging (such as in a greating or farewell) as a cassual thing friends do all the time. I've only ever had one exception to that. I left a girl once because she was uncomfortable hugging anyone (including me) but would go out of her way to hug one bloke (who had turned her down when she asked him out but was till in her friendship group) every time she saw him... like every time. Even if he had just gone to the bathroom and come back.
Of course. That's a little ridiculous to not allow my significant other to hug people he/she is friends or close with. If you both truly trust each other, it wouldn't be a problem. If I'm not insecure in my relationship, there's no need to set limits on my partner.
I allow my boyfriend to hug people. I have no issues with it because I already know he doesn't like them very much and he's really closed off. So if he hugs someone it's family or they did something that means a lot to him. As for myself lol... he doesn't even like me hugging my father. Let alone any other man. He feels it's too intimate a thing unless it's with a female. If I hug it has to be quick and withdrawn.
Um, yeah. It's called personal freedom. I'm not going to infringe on those. Why do so many couples insist on doing just that? Do you types get to dictate when they take a shit, too?
I wouldn’t want him giving one one the wrong impression.
You'd have to assume that anyone he would feel close enough with to hug would be a platonic friend who already knows he's taken. Besides that, who cares if some chick gets the wrong idea in her head? Are you really so unsure if your man would be unable to resist going for that pussy just because it was offered? But I suppose that's rhetorical, you obviously don't trust him an ounce if we're really having a conversation about not allowing people to be autonomous with their own bodies. ._.
I’ve been cheated on several times and I refuse to get cheated on again. Better safe than sorry.
That sucks, sure, but reeling the leash in until he's choking won't prevent it. If anything, that will make it more likely that he will. Ever notice how when something is absolutely forbidden, that makes people want to do it way more? If my man had the gall to tell me I couldn't touch my male friends ever, I'd start doing that shit all the time just to prove a point, and if he wasn't okay with it, he wouldn't be my boyfriend anymore (hypothetically, since he would never actually do this to me).
I didn’t say he couldn’t touch them. He shouldn’t be hugging a girl he knows has a crush on him.
My point is that if he tried to control me to such a degree, I would start going out of my way to do the "forbidden". Like eating from the cookie jar when you're not supposed to?Forbidden fruit and all that?It doesn't make him less likely to cheat. It just limits his freedoms because of the sins of his predecessor (s), which is not fair or healthy and could make him resent you, which would make him far more likely to cheat.
He has cheated on me once that’s why I no longer allow certain things and everything is fine
He cheated on you and everything is fine? Lol... guuuurl. You better get woke and dump his ass.
I don’t need advice on my relationship. It’s a long story and we’ve been together for almost 7 months now.
Well I wouldn't really "hug" another girl but if she wanna hug someone and they're friends, I won't be mad. She has rights to do whatever she wants. I can't stop her from doing something just because I'm a little piece of immature overprotective shit.
The last part was funny. Calm down little piece of immature overprotective shit.
I would do a side hug from guys from my family like ( cousins brothers etc)I would let my boyfriend do the same
When I was 17 it probably would have bothered me. Now I'm more secure... she can hug whoever she wants.
I'm very touchy feely so I hug lots of people and my man best get used to it or he can hit the road lol
@rockrewls bullshit lol
Well yes her family close friends but id be jealous if guy friends.
I don’t restrict my boyfriend from anything, it’s not my place to do that. If my boyfriend wants to hug his friends then I’m not going to stop him.
It depends on how secure you feel in your relationship
Yes, my wife can hug anyone she likes. You and your boyfriend deserve each other.
He cannot touch another living being.human, cat, tree, etc. I domino give a fuck.
I dont*** hahaa
Yeah I would lol not my item to dictate. If he wants to hug someone sure!
I won't even touch him myself let alone other girls. I don't touch boys anyway.
No. I'm scared she'll like their bodies more than mine.
I’m pretty secure about that
No but her friends no problem
Yes I do
His family or guy friends? yes. Other girls? Nope.
Yep I'm fine with it
No big deal.
Yes... and more
Yes it's just a hug.
No I don't
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