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It's really impossible to narrow it down to one, it's the set of things, a good handful that are absolutely essential. Lacking any one of them would exclude that person from my interest, at least in a long term romance. As a lover, a fling, etc. I would not be so strict, but I would still require mutual respect, attraction, a person I can enjoy time with, who is delightful and interesting.A long term partner... damn. It's someone with a heart of gold. Wise, sensual, values that mirror my own, and the capacity/desire for motherhood. I think she would certainly have to match me intellectually to have a strong bond to begin with, so that's a serious requirement.Dealbreakers, there are a few. Anything opposite of or the lack of the stated requirements for me. Betrayal, deep character flaws, an inability or lack of desire to push herself, improve on what she's got going on in her life, physically, mentally, perhaps professionally. Controlling and manipulative behavior, lies, drug abuse, awful friends or family (abusive, reprehensible, addicts, etc.) that she can't or won't change or leave.That's most of it in a nutshell. I'm sure we could all make lists longer than 1000 words of specific instances or whatever that constitute a line in the sand, you know?
One that loves you selflessly... it's an extremely rare trait but if you happen to find one, sink your claws deep in him / her and never let go... they'll keep you happy for as long as they live(Selfless love is only displayed commonly in families like parents-children and between siblings)Statistically, a person who had no siblings has a higher chance of showing this trait
Communication. If I can’t talk to you like you’re my Bestfriend than what’s the point of the relationship?
I agree thanks for your response
i also agree
i have to be able to talk to her like a best friend and i want her to be kind, honest, caring, chill, and she is ok with my goofy ness and thank god i actually found her her nickname with me is perfect
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Being genuine. If I can't trust you, there can't be love. Simple.
Number one for me is that she must be a devout Christian. So obviously, the deal breaker is if she's not.
I agree same with me
Her mind and her personality. I know it sounds like bull but I'm telling the truth.
I appreciate your response and honesty
She's passionate about something. I don't want someone that has no original thought to contribute.
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Honesty, loyalty, good hygiene, has a job to support themselves.My dealbreaker is not able to handle my heavy emotional baggage. I can’t be with someone that doesn’t understand I have anxiety/PTSD .
It would be a deal breaker for the other partner to look at life at every angle and aspect and then freak it down from all pre conditioning school teaching lies about a lot of things and filter out the B. S... and see what you have.
Kindness is among the top traits I look for. A deal breaker for me would be rudeness.
That's good for me because I'm the kindest person.
Intellectual, respectful and honest. All of the above <3
Maturity, Loyalty, Honesty, Inside beauty.Deal breakers : Immaturity, Not being honest and loyal, being fat
Kind natured, smart and caring. Deal breaker would be if she were religious.
Important traits: Faithful, Loyal, Honest, Communication, Kind.Deal breakers: Rude, Loud, Bad hygiene
The Understanding that in relationship it's a two way connection with your partner
Good listening skills and basic understanding
muscular n sexy; not muscular n sexy
Lol same 😂
For me a kind heart a lovimg heart.
You just described me lol
yes I bet I did need a princess.
Unfortunately I'm already taken but there are many more princesses out there waiting for their Prince to come to their rescue 😉
lol you keep telling me.
Honestly, communication, smart at least lol
Haha I agree
honesty is first.
Yes I agree
Smart, loyal, good looking, and our connection.
A pulse lol
Yeah that's important
Among many other things. Some faults can be overlooked or even cute.
Wanna be frenz? :3
Is there a way we can message each other or do I have to stoop down to a dickhead's level and ask for a kik or phone number on the first date?
You can message me 😊
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Ok I'll message you
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