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I want him to be smarter.I want him to inspire me. I would be proud that he’s more accomplished.
Nice. Inspiration isn't usually something a person looks for in a partner. Refreshing answer
It’s impossible to determine if someone is more or less intelligent than you unless the two are on the extreme ends of the scale. Because in practice domain knowledge is what we all live in plus your ability or willingness to use that intelligence is another factor.I want a guy to be in my ballpark. He can be smarter or less so but should be enough to be engaging and challenging.
I understand your viewpoint - at the middle of the bell curve, it's all so close. But I'm counting your answer you prefer him intelligent based on your statement about being challenged.
Well, I want him in my ballpark.
Yep. Got it
I want a men who I can talk with about everything. Yes Politics too. He needs some knowledge for that. He should be able to keep up with me and should know a lot about the world and how it works. So I prefer if he is on the same page as me.
Good answer. Hope you don't mind a follow up question. It appears that politics is a topic that engages you; do you prefer your SO to share your political views, or someone that differs and challenges your status quo?
I'm not sure if you are familiar with the German politics but I'm a the Green (Environment) voter and would be okay with a SPD (Social) and CDU (conservative) voter but not with a AFD (right) voter
Not too familiar with German politics, but sounds like you are ok with left to centrist aligned people. The far right is out of your ballpark
Exactly. I work with refugees and the AFD want them gone.
It's a messed up world. I think we all view the world too broadly nowadays - there is a loss of individualism in politics.
Just a little bit more, my intelligence I mean knows what to do and is quick to act instead of expecting others to do it.
Sorry, you like to be a little smarter than him you mean?
No, him to be smarter
You like a man who is decisive and quick to make decisions and act?
Yes, but I don’t wanna say that cause that makes him sound strict, and emotionally void. I don’t like those kind of guys
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