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I'm not going to say "awww you'll find someone eventually", because that's very unlikely, because you're now jealous, angry and miserable, so work on that before it's too late.
That really hurts man. I'm not angry, it's just every time I see a couple I get reminded of all the times I been rejected. And I need advise on how to cope with that
Think of any past and future rejection as getting one step closer to a gf?
Ok, how do I train my mind to think that way. I don't see how it's getting any closer
After every time you talk to a girl at a party or a bar (you should go to those and try to live a more interesting life), try to understand what you did wrong (eg. you stuttered or said something she found offensive) -> work on it next time.
I just hate seeing couples period.
And the names they give each other...
Don't worry.Approach women , you will have a girlfriend too.
You are unhappy so nobody should be happy? You sound like a spiteful little shit to me.
I'm not saying they shouldn't be happy. I'm just saying it makes me sad and I need advise on how to get over that
Fair enough. figure out why you get rejected all the time, and then fix it.
Can't fix ugly
Sure you can. It just depends on why you are ugly. Or just start asking out ugly girls.
I don't know why God made me look this way. I'm not going to ask out girls I'm not attracted to. That's a waste of both our time
Sounds to me like your problems are a hell of a lot worse than physical. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QbxinUJcLGg&t=59s
It will happen one day me & my wife met on a mobile gaming app... don't try to hard and it shall happen
You could be trying to hard...
I think I am trying way to hard on girls I'm interested in
As cliche as it sounds be comfortable and focus on you... if you appear happy to others they will want to be around you and fun attracts... I would recommend a hobby
I asked out a girl in person once and she said she will have to check her schedule. She said she couldn't get coffee with me, so I took it as a no and moved on. Then she messages me once and then shows up at my church wanting to talk to me. At that point I wasn't interested anymore because she turned me down. And I was only kinda interested to begin with
I have a lot of hobbies lol. I'm known as the board game drug dealer cuz i have a ton of board games in my trunk. And I solve the ribiks cube in 30 seconds
Do you think you have high standards?
Well that's great... but if you had this attitude of know what people feel before you let them decide then technically it's not them... it's you bro...
So she comes too you after she isn't busy and you reject her?
Basically I did because she turned me down. I cried for a day. We didn't talk for weeks and then randomly she shows up at my church and said we should hang out sometime. She seems pretty desperate
No man she isn't. Because she turned you down that's not reason to be vindictive... you need to work on that... no girl wants a vindictive guy
I don't think i have high standards. I'm about a 6 so I shoot for the 6s
You should have gave her a chance
Dude the rating system is lame is so shallow... get out of that mentality.
Im not being vindictive. I got to know her a little and she messages me like she is desperate
What where the exact words she said too you?
You're right the rating system is lame
She turned you down... and because she made you cry... you turned her down... I'm not sure what to say dude...
It wasn't really any words per say, it was the way she came across. And I guess it was kinda the way i came across to this other girl that i really like and my family loves her. Karmas a bitch
She didn't turn him down she had a busy calendar and when she told him this "I took it as a no and moved on"
Ok now something about another girl? I am ending my side of the argument. It appears to me your subconcia wants to make other people miserable like you are. Peace
I didn't turn her down because she turned me down. I turned her down because she showed up at my church wanting to talk to me and hang out after several weeks of nothing. And the conversation that day was awkward as staring at crap
This has happend over the course of like 6 years. I've only had like 6 crushes in my entire life time. I'm not a man hoe or something
Yeah She had a "busy calendar". She told me she was only taking like two classes that semester
Yeah but like these reasons are all situational man... like it doesn't seem to matter on how many or who or anything.. all that matters is you choose them to be that way because of factors that were kinda spiteful then reasonable... I know you don't wanna hear on consider that but I mean... it was your choice...
If you can't beat it, join it
I don't think that applies to this man
You could get a girlfriend...
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