I’m a super healthy person that’s really ambitious and I’m thinking this guy doesn’t fit in with me. But he now keeps asking me out and he said that he doesn’t understand what my problem is that it’s a plant. I feel like I’m being a mean person cause I know it’s not the worst thing to do but I don’t wanna date a stoner.
What would you do or what is your view?
- No I definitely wouldn’t date a stoner
- Yes I would date a person that smokes weed
- I do smoke it so it wouldn’t bother me
- I don’t smoke but it wouldn’t bother me if the person I’m dating smoked weed
Most Helpful Guy
Let me out it this way. Is it legal in the place you are in? No? Then no.
Is he still responsible with his life? No? Then no
If it is legal and he is responsible and respects your stance on not wanting to try it i would say it's worth a try. Anything else though and it's not worth the trouble.
Most Helpful Girl
i dated a person that smokes weed in the past for about 2 weeks before i couldn't deal with it anymore. his clothes smells, his room smells, you can smell it even outside the house when he opens his window from the second floor, everyone can smell weed coming from his body and giving us weird looks when we're going out, we were stopped and searched by cops on foot patrol 4 times within that 2 weeks, we can't even have a proper conversation because he's too high to think straight and tried to make me smoke weed with him once so i just dumped him.