Is it ever okay for your boyfriend to lie to you?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Hmm no? I wouldn't want my girlfriend (if i can ever find one, that is) to be truthful as well. To prove myself, i give her my phone password (i did that with my ex) and I requested her to give me hers. Now she trusted i wouldn't snoop, and i trusted her. We came through for each other.

    Now even if she asked if another girl was more good looking than her, id be honest, saying: "Hey, she may look physically better than you, i still chose you. And for good reason! I love you not just for your looks but also i love you for you. And nothing will change that. " I would add her into some chats with other female friends , to show that she could trust me. We still ended, as my parents pulled us apart.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • It depends on what exactly.
    Some things are no
    Somethings are yes.

    For instance if I asked my boyfriend if my female friend was better looking than me, and she was some porn model, I’d expect him to lie and say “oh hell no boo! Your beauty can’t be compared to her. you're
    A 100 and she’s like a 3”

    If he lied to me about stuff like being with a female friend instead of his guy friend then there’d be a problem.

    Otherwise I try to be honest completely and he is too. Or so I hope

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    • "I’d expect him to lie and say “oh hell no boo! Your beauty can’t be compared to her. you're
      A 100 and she’s like a 3”"

      so then what if he told the truth there? how would you feel?

    • @Toad-1
      I’d be feeling like super happy regardless 😭 and I’d remind myself that I picked a keeper. (I have actually. The other day he was cuddling with me and told me he he appreciated me and he’s lucky to have me. And he’s done so much for me and God I’m so thankful for this sweet guy).

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What Guys Said 30

  • That is a very difficult question to answer. It depends on the situation of the lie. Other than surprises and the such I don't believe it is ok. In a relationship, lying can destroy trust and without trust you are in a terrible relationship. Something that I've always said is if you can't trust someone with the truth then you shouldn't be with them. That applies mostly to relationships.

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  • Depends on the lie. If he's lying about where he is and who he's with, then no fuck that. If he's lying like "no we are just going to dinner" then BAM surprise birthday party or whatever then yea that's fine

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  • Very rarely. There's sometimes where it is legitametly best for you, even if it might be bad for him. But mostly relationships are built upon trust and lies should be exceedingly rare.

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  • There are different scales of things, but if it's something of any substance, no. Relationships should be built on trust. When people's lies are exposed it can undermine everything

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  • At times of serious importance, yes it is, but that doesn't mean "I got fired, I should lie to my girl and just go to a strip club while at 'work'", no I'm talking he done fucked shit up and you are already stressed out, and only when he can fix it on his own too

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  • Never ok for anyone to lie. I've lied a lot to my ex girlfriend and I regret it. It was stupid little things. Better to just never lie

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  • Nope unless if it something really simple and not a big deal and he don't lie about it he just didn't mention it like having a bad day at work but never mention it.

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  • Nope. A healthy relationship is where you are completely honest with the person. There's no hiding stuff or covering the truth. You respect your partner.

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  • No if he has to lie to you then it just means he really doesn't respect you to much

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  • not really. there should alwways be trust and honesty but in mitigation, was he trying to spare your feelings

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  • Yes. People shouldn't tell the truth 100% of the time

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  • No it's not ok both the boyfriend and girlfriend should always be honest with each other unless it is to surprise a person there with then it is okay

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  • If he lie a lot nope but some times dont have problem

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  • When a woman asks you "Do I look fat in this dress?", you have already lost 😂

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  • Each night we lie next to each other. Does that count?
    Little, innocent lies are fine with me. Malicious lies: not at all

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  • sometimes its ok, like when you ask him "Do i look fat" then its ok to lie

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  • Yes, when you are playing Coup or Sheriff of Nottingham.

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  • Yeah, when he says "I would never think of other women"

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  • No. But I've been told my tactless honesty is one of the reasons I'm single.

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  • Sometime to avoid something big fight I think it's ok to lie

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What Girls Said 7

  • Hell no! If he lies, there is no trust and relationship builds on trust.

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  • If it's about something serious then it's not okay but both genders tell white lies so I wouldn't hold that against him.

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  • i don't know about others... In my case.. I can't handle that... Like why would you even lie? Why can't you trust me? If you wanna lie... then don't be with me... that's what goes in my mind.

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  • Hell no especially if its about him cheating on you or talking to other girls. No lie is cool. What ever happened to being honest? Its much simpler. Lies get bigger and bigger and hurt.

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  • If its like somrthing petty or like a surprise then sure if its something that's more serious that affects us or him or me then no.

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  • White lies are okay, otherwise no never

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  • No it isn’t

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