Is a thirteen year old girl dating a seventeen/eighteen year old guy inappropriate'? But what is the girl didn't look thirteen at all and she acted more mature?



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  • You have to flip this question around the other way.

    Why would a 17/18 year old guy want to date a 13 year old?

    Imagine when you're 18 and one of your 18 year old male friends starts dating an 13 year old. What would you think of him? At best you'll think he's a massive losser, at worst a massive pervert.

    No it is wrong, wrong wrong.

    If you did date an 18 years old guy, it doesn't mean you're hot or mature, it means your dating a losser. He maybe a losser with a car, but he is still a losser.

    This is a mathamtical formula for working out approproate ages.

    Your age divided by 2, plus 7.

    So your 13.

    13 / 2 = 6.5 + 7 = 13.5

    13 - 7 = 6 x 2 = 12

    you can date a range of 12 to 13.5 years old boys

    Your 18 year old crush can date. 16 to 22 years olds.

    Hope that helps.


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What Guys Said 2

  • that is a bit young, depends on grade level too, like if he is a 17 sr. then its better than if he is a 17/18 graduated. same with the girl, if she is 13 in high school, this is I would say ok for a sr. to date a fresh, but unusual. anything is tolerable, but I think that a shorter gap is more likely the relationship will last. but, 4 years is probebly the max to be considered a normal relationship.

  • more of illigal than inappropriate. just think about the troubles.


What Girls Said 1

  • Its a little bit young. But its okay in this case like when you will be 20 years, he will definitly be 24 years old and it will be okay. But now lets say that being when you said 13 it sounds so underage.

    • Because it IS so underage. It's illegal. Best off finding someone your own age.