Wait so u dont check out othwr women?
kinda hard to explain. most guys look and get aroused to some degree. For me I want to know what kind of a person they are. If they are attractive that comes after. for me who they are is what makes them attractive then physical features amplify it. I get told I have witchy eyes when I am talking a girl. asked what that meant and she explained that when I talked to her she felt like I was looking straight into her soul trying to figure out who she was. She said she could feel it like a physical thing lol. I liked her romantically for a while then it became more of a sisterly thing. I liked her for who she was first then I started to look at her physical features. so I guess maybe I check women out but not in a sexual way. and definitely not while in a relationship.
But u dont go around in a relationship thinking other girls are hot or cute. That ur partners the only one hot or cure right?
I don't have a partner but if I did absolutely not I wouldn't be going around checking other women out.
Where are u men can u please send over your kind?
I wish I could. Most of the men like me are older than I am. My parents are old enough to be most people my ages grandparents (I am adopted) so when they started talking to me about how to treat women and other people in general it was how they were taught by there parents who were born in 1913 give or take. My grandparents were born before women got there rights but way back then you treated a woman with respect and when you found a woman you loved. you actually loved her. there are some guys like me that are also about my age. but acting like me is more common in 30's maybe 40's. I wish you all the best and please do feel free to pm if you have any interest in having someone to talk to that has no motives other than talking. Best of luck and don't fret too much about what is or what will be. things work themselves out eventually.
I wasn't but i was taught if ur in a relationship then you work through problems with communication. If you love someone why are u checking other people out? Why do u have to look around at others and think they are attractive. But since im 18 there is no one else like me of my kind and i feel really lonly
I get that I guess that is what makes us different. Each of us knows the difference between love lust and infatuation.
Man it suck ass
hahahaha yes it does. To be honest I just try and avoid thinking about how alone I am. both romantically and among other guys my age most of them just follow there basic sexual impulses and urges which is truly disheartening.
:( litterly i feel like i will never find a guy becaus its so rare to think like we do this day in age
you will just have to be patient. Find peace, tranquility and happiness where you can in the meantime. Don't give up and allow this toxic society to change you into someone you are not. that would be the true loss.
Same to you. If you dont mind me asking how old are you. Im not trying to come on to you i just wanna know what age my ideas stand with
I am the age it says and don't worry I wouldn't come onto to you either. I am 22.
Well my ideas are close to someone my age thank god
hahahahahaha thank your parents for teaching you manners, respect, and how to treat people. They clearly did a fine job.
Thank you. I just kept thinking growing up because my parents dont follow the exact same thing i think, obviously. But i always saw them say looking doesn't hurt the relationship. Its ok to look. And i kept thinking you dont like it when they do it. And number 2 it does because you are concerned about how u look now twoards your significant other. And if you really thought your boyfriend/girlfried/ wife or hubby was cute and hot and no one tops how they look... why are u looking calling other people hot and cute?
well like some people say there is a difference between looking and looking lol. turns out what they apparently mean is you have the oh look there is a woman. then there is the oh look there is a woman huh... she is pretty. some guys have this odd fascination with comparing there girlfriend to every other female they see. tbh I feel that is both rude to there girlfriend/wife and to the other woman as well. it goes both ways of course but I mean seriously why date the hottest person in the world if she is a total ice queen. same with ladies why date the hottest guy if he has a terrible personality... I have always been about the personality. which is why I don't look at other women aside from it being rude (least the way people do it)
I can u, dersyand looking like oh there is a girl by me dont wanna bump into her. But if ur like of she has a nice ass thats when im like WTF
yeah sadly most people do that.
Same im still trying to look
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Where are more men like this? I feel like im the only girl that thinks the same about not checking guys out in a relationship
yeah i think its plain disgusting and a asshole move
I need to find someone like u where i live
you should try the app whisper, or tinder maybe
Notice yes "oh ok there's a girl there dont want to bump into her" checking out is different.
Why is it so hard not to look? If you really love her shurly you would stop the habbit
I dont check other giirl when i know i hve the best. Sadly I been cheated on for my loyalty. Ever since then i been single for the last 2 years and haviing second thoughtss "IS LOYALTY REAALY WORSTT IT..."😞😞😉