she broke up with me because of distance after a 3 year ltr. its been 4 months now and I just found out that she is anew relationship( (I saw them , when I came to town). The thing is I don't know if she had been with him before the break up, which gives me the doubt that she is rebounding. but she recently text me saying that , she think about me a lot, can get me out of her head and she's trying to move on but its not as easy as she thought!
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Well... I was with my ex for 3 years and it's only been about 2 months since the break up, and I've just been informed by my friends that she has a new guy already. I'm not sure if that happened straight after the break up or not, but here are the two options as I see it:
1) She's liked him for a while. Probably even when you were dating. I know it sounds harsh and horrible, but I know that girls are able to like multiple guys at the same time, and if she knew that she was going to be breaking up with you soon, she wanted to have the option to jump to somebody else just as quickly.
2) Alternatively, it is a rebound and she's just using this guy to get over you. There's no way I can picture either of our exes "getting over us" after just a couple of months - especially as we're still in a state of shock and awe. She might just need the company to forget about the good times she had with you and move on faster. But believe me, she will not have skipped the "grieving" stage - that will hit her hard later in life.0
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