Have any of you ever felt sad and lonely in a relationship?

Share your experience. What did you do to pass the time? Did you break up immediately or took some time while preparing your heart? Or did swallow and made up things with your lover.


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  • It was a cold feeling, like having to dry off with a bath towel that is already damp. In my case, I actually left the home entirely. Much later, it turned out that my partner was a victim of unreported abuse much earlier in their life, and I was never able to get them to talk about it. So in fact, they were the one who was sad and lonely, but they didn't want my help. I left and got a job.

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    • Its really sad to hear 😕 but you can't blame yourself since its up to them whether be open up or not. You are not someone who can read minds. sometimes i feel like in my case something like this is happening.. like he has a problem and he isn't telling me. I keep asking but if he says no problem and make me feel so distance whatelse can I do

    • Everything will be alright, and if you are aware that love is an inexhaustible resource, you will feel confident in many of your choices.

  • I have due to a lack of communication and mid understanding. I love her with my all heart I'm thankful she didn't leave me. For you the only advice I can do for you is wait evaluate your situation and see if he/her really loves you and see if you can see your self with him years later. You know your self best you know what's best for you think your brain is your best tool.

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  • @Ivory6 I was in a relationship that ended recently. We worked hard to keep it together, did many things to change the tides. Went through emotional roller coasters together. Ultimately I feel that people fall out of love. Loneliness is natural to a dying relationship where two people are no longer invested in each other and stay together for all the wrong reasons. Sometimes people feel the depth of sadness during and after the break up. Some people have a harder time, usually the person who is not ready for the break up. I was done emotionally, physically and mentally by the time we broke up. I'm not so sure it was the same case for him.

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  • I feel like I have two personalities. One of them is quiet, good person, good friend and another is big extrovert who's always ready to have a fight.
    However, If I would be in the relationship and I feel like I can't be in it anymore I would do this and I have no idea is that good or bad, but I would make them break up with me because I can't break their hearts if they didn't do anything bad actually.

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    • The first part of you is similar to me. The second part is however not me. Actually I try to do make them break up with me cos its hard for me to let go easily but they never leave and Im the one who have to stay enduring all the pain. So in the end I become the one who usually leaves.

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    • Stubborn people, we could have fights for so long. But somehow that was also so interesting until It changed. My priorities changed, my career started to be the most important thing in my life so we weren't together that much
      He was out a lot and I just started to be alone most of the time, I didn't know where is he or what is he doing and I couldn't help myself than to think that it's ny fault. But later I realized that it wasn't and I made him angry at me so he can break up

    • Its super hard to survive feeling like that. Tbh all my past relationships ended that way. Myself being alone and they didn't dump me but me leaving them 😔 im so tired of these things now..

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What Guys Said 24

  • Yea I experienced that in my relationship for a little bit. But eventually I finally talked to her about it and it fixed everything. Try talking to them about it and see what happens. Maybe they just don’t realize or know what you’re feeling.

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    • Have talked like multiple times. He agree and accept it until he get me back and then fucking forgets it. Imgine a boyfriend who never calls you daily. We dont meet daily either but we live near by! We only text and its just so boring. Like checking outs, did you eat, good morning nights etc

    • Oh well then yea, I’d consider moving on. If he’s not at least trying, it’s not worth your time.

  • If you're ever unhappy in a relationship I think you should break up with them as soon as you can because when you're unhappy in a relationship then you're unhappy till as far as you can see in the future whereas if if you break up with them then you're only in that mourning period over that person for a while cause you know that you will get better and move on in the future...

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  • Feeling lonely came straight away for me but that's because I thought there was nobody in the world who cared so I started to care more about myself and started exercising 😂

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    • I tried to do it too. But can't except the fact that something is missing. Anyway did you make up with your lover?

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    • Thank you! ❤️ I will keep this in my mind 😊

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  • Two of the relationships I was in no one important to me we had to keep a secret so I'm in no more mountain people knew about it because my girlfriend's parents didn't like me on the other one was WB but she was into me she eventually found somebody else and ditched me this thing scares me more than I can say here so Life Goes On there's somebody for everyone out there

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  • it's just empty and lonely that feeling right?
    I took while to break up but it wasn't long enough to make realized I could've fixed it when I first felt like that. Even before i broke up i could've fixed... All i thought about was breaking up, i wish didn't learn how to fix it, after i broke up.

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  • Swallow and made up lotta times... But in d end it sucks... So breaking up was best option ☺️

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    • @amaxx I would like to ask for some advice on a situation, but I don't want to blow up the notifications, so would you mind following me so I could private message you?

    • Following you already ☺️

    • I think this is what im gonna do this time.

  • Whenever a girl tells me something like" it's me or... x thing " i choose the second. Dont try to control my life

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  • If you can you should always try to make thing up but if you feel lonely you should probably move on tell them at a time you feel most distant

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  • I'm always sad been backstabbed, heartbroken, betrayed , don't know who to trust anymore haven't had a great in 4 years

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  • If that is how you are feeling then that is not the relationship for you.

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  • I do right now

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  • Yep, time to leave!

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  • Yes, dealing with that shit now

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  • Every single one

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  • Right now...

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  • I want a relationship

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  • I cannot say

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  • All time

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  • When she's away yeah

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  • No, I feel sad and lonely the rest of the time

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  • Yes its time to wqlk

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  • Yeah when I was married

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  • Yes I do now

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  • Sometimes

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What Girls Said 21

  • I felt lonely with my ex. Emotionally i just felt he wasn’t 100% there. I always felt he was at a distance. I felt alone and taken for granted; i felt very small and isolated with him. He never complimented me, or met me emotionally at the same level. Instead, he was chasing other girls on social media and that made me feel so badly hurt.

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    • My most recent relationship of 4 years right here in a nutshell! Only it wasn't social media! He was on porn hook up sites!! I kept feeling like he was hiding something. I started to think he was cheating on me. Until he took off in February for 2 days. I asked to see his Google account so I could his locations, and there it was, his search history and logins 💔 I had no idea whatsoever that was what I was going to find. He recently left a week ago yesterday. It hurts deeply, but it is what it is...

  • I felt that way and what's worse is that I wanted to convince myself everything was going great when it wasn't. I wish I had let him go sooner. Instead I got dumped but whatever, life goes on. As soon as you start feeling sad and lonely please leave. Clearly something isn't going right..

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  • In my last one I did. Because he always made me feel like I was making bad decisions and that I was no good. Left me feeling lost and constantly worrying about the things I said or did. Turns out he just was a manipulative narcissist who knew I was too good for him subconsciously and tried to being me down so I didn’t leave him.

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  • Yes n stayed for awhile n realized i had to get out thank goodness

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    • Hmmm we can't change people anyway yeah?

    • Definitely can't sweetie. I always say u are whom u were born to be n ain't no changing that

  • I have been there before and it wasn't a good feeling also tried talking and never worked. Wasted nearly two years trying to make it work and countless time talking and nothing changed you have to just bite the bullet and leave and move on.

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  • I think it is normal for everyone to feel lonely or sad occasionally in relationships. I mean if it is constant or you're just plain unhappy then there's no point in staying in a relationship where you aren't happy anymore.

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  • I masturbated and I played a lot of RPGs. We patched things up, but then he moved to Georgia anyway.

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  • Yes, only because he wasn’t there for me when I needed him. Whenever I wanted to make plans he would tell me sorry I’m busy. I broke up with him after I found out he was cheating with two other girls.

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  • Noo, and if you are then you probably best not to be with that person. You should feel happy and excited!

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  • Yes it took a few weeks but finally broke up with him

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  • Omg yes and it's like he's out there looking mesg females wen I'm right here so I'll do the same right back to not be hurting... But we get along amazing wen we are toegether it's been 10yrs

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  • Never keep it going if thats how you feel. things will dull down and when things end up negative it tends to be a lot harder. My opinion. Express your feelings and say you need to work on you.

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  • You usually feel sad and lonely in relationship when both you have bad communication. Also when a man is emotionally unavailable...

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  • I try to take sometime to prepare my heart

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  • Oh yes

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  • my previous relationship... it ended

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  • I lived with my ex and felt lonely like crazy.

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  • Yes, towards the end.

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  • Heloo

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  • Incredibly sad and lonely but i can say this, ill only do it that once, someone that emotionally checks out isn't going to check back in

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  • I gave him an ultimatum to spend more time with me or i was gonna leave. It worked.

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    • And he never did the same thing again?

    • He did but much less. i keep him in check lol

    • isn't it devastating? 😪 im doing the same and i feel so worthless now

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