I mean she could have her shit together better than u and its still a no.
Honestly once u get to a certain age this should not be a issue its not like your going to get a virgin anymore.
Most Helpful Guy
Single moms are very different from women without kids. They have a different perspective than women without kids. I've tried the single mom thing before, and it sucks.
-We couldn't go on dates all the time, because the kids were around.
-When we were together, we had to keep the PDA at a minimum because the kids were in the next room.
-It was difficult to build with a single mom... because she already had everything and had a house already.
-They expect a lot out of a guy... and you also realize that you will never be a priority.
I'm 27, so I really want to date someone without kids. I am currently dating a girl who is my age and she doesn't have kids. We can have spontaneous sex. We can go out on fun dates and are not constraint by babysitters or time. We can travel to other countries on a whim. We can build together and eventually have a kid of our own and raise our kid together... AFTER we have done everything we wanted to do together as a couple.
Most Helpful Girl
Wanting a virgin and wanting someone who doesn’t have children are worlds apart, they aren’t even relatable to the argument here.
Having children brings extra facets into a relationship many men don’t want to take on. The extra responsibility, the attachment issues if there is a break up, dealing with the children’s father if he’s still in the picture and then also why the woman is single herself. Of course not all relationships work out, but in reality there is a stigma/potential risk that she made a bad choice in who to have children with. Is it really worth the risk if there are other women that don’t come with those complications?8