Most Helpful Guy
I'm very sorry that ever happened to you, you don't deserve that, no one deserves that.
And technically, I think there's a difference between being having sex and being violated. When you're raped, it's against your will. When you willingly have sex with someone like a boyfriend, they have your full permission and consent.
So technically, you're not a virgin cuz you've had bad but real experience, but you're also still a virgin cuz you haven't give it up yet of your own choice. So overall, I think you're still a virgin, or in your case, a half-virgin, if that makes any sense.
Hate to say it, but I imagine most Christian guys would be put off by it, but they care about you enough, they'll overlook it and understand.
Personally, I'm no longer Christian, but I am Spiritual, I still believe in God and I believe in having a personal, healthy relationship with him and being the best person I can be is more important than obsessively practicing religion in general. If I were to meet a girl like you, I would not care, if she were to tell me upfront, I think it would strengthen our bond.
You are still pure, no matter what happened, you have to believe it.
Most Helpful Girl
That's a Virgin not a woman who has had sex yet love matters not sex that's not having sex at all that's a crime involving violations of a cavity used in same place sex can be once lost virginity what is a Virgin to you?