Soooo, just curious... Could that really be the case, or is it just that they're not interested enough in THAT specific girl to take it any further?
Most Helpful Girl
I think your best bet is just to believe him and ask yourself if you’re alright with that. If I’ve been seeing a guy for a little while and he brings up some version of the what are we conversation and I say I’m not looking for anything serious, I still like him but I’m definitely not ready to be in a relationship. If you’ve been seeing him long enough to ask where it’s going, he’s clearly into you. If you’re alright with knowing it’ll likely just be a fling then tell him that, but if you’re not it’s better to cut your losses and find someone who’s on the same page as you. I wouldn’t take it personally
Most Helpful Guy
It could be that the person specifically isn't into me, or they have many options and don't want to be tied down. I have done the same things, unfortunately.