He comes clean and tells you that he has committed murder and assures you that he's a changed man. You've been in relationship with him for a month and he's shown no sign of being abusive or any of that. He did look intimidating because he's a big dude but you didn't suspect a thing.
What would you do?
- I would stay with him!
- I would be scared but I would still stay with him!
- I would start having doubts about our relationship!
- I would leave him!
Most Helpful Girl
It would completely depend on details of the murder, and whether you suspect if there's a reason he may have gone for you that links to it.
1st degree or premeditated, I would leave him- your safety is paramount.
If it was self defence from some horrific act- that's different.
One month is no time at all to tell if someone is abusive- I know this from experience.
Also, not that age is a tremendous boundary, nor should it be treated as one- bit I'm guessing as someone who has done time for murder, that either he is considerably older, or has spent a good amount of his young life behind bars- this can hugely affect someone, and although you seem mature, if he's much older I would question any possible power or control he may feel he has over you.
Most Helpful Guy
Depends on what the details of the murder are. If it's premeditated 1st degree murder, nope the fuck out, but if it's involuntary manslaughter that's a different beast entirely. I'd suggest looking for the court documents for the case and deciding for yourself if his actions are ok.