Why not be upfront from the beginning, why not be upfront about what you want, so that other person can make a choice?

Why string a person along for many months? If you wanted sex.. just be upfront so that person can at least say yes or no. How would you respond to this? No one these days are genuine anymore.

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  • Speaking from the standpoint of a guy, (please don't be offended) it all begins with you ladies...

    Let's consider the other way round. If you want sex, all you need is ask or lead him sexually and you'll get it. As easy as you had wrote.

    But if a guy wants and asked directly, (perhaps not you buy many women are so) he'll be labelled as many had wrote: creep, desperate, ...

    Look at all the "women's rights" movement. You ladies can touch a man and is fine (even giving him a playful spank in the office). But if we guys do the same we could be charged with molesting.

    So not being a sexist but looking at the legal side of society, there is not much "equality" and hence restrain us guys from being too forthright with sexual approaches.

    Finally, the "Good girl don't like sex" syndrome somehow still exists in today's society. That "good" girls must be chased and those too easy to get paid are considered $lut.

    So with such old fashioned thoughts still exist, how can you expect us guys to just tell you on first few meets "wanna fuck"? For We too feared being rejected just because of us being too direct.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Honest people are hard to come by these days. But on the rare chance that you come across one, they’re usually worth keeping.

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  • because unfortunately love some people are liars some people don't know how to be straight up Everybody's Talkin about keep it 100 but people seldom do it's unfortunate but true

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  • playa!

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  • What you suggest gets a man put in "creep" status.

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