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Been there. He's afraid that he's going to tell you something that you will find unacceptable. But until he is able to be open with you, he will never feel that he is really known and loved. Eventually I got over this. I realized that as long as I was holding back I would never be comfortable in my relationship but would be living in fear forever -- "If she really knew me, she wouldn't like me". So finally I met a lovely woman and eventually spilled it all (almost all, but enough). Now we're married and it's so relaxed.