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Its hard, I struggle with that and it definitely puts a strain on romantic relationships but just know you can have long term relationships in spite of it. You just need to find things you can do together that aren't conversation heavy. For example one ex that I had for about two years was really into pinball so that became a thing we would do, go out to the bars and play pinball. Its also helpful after the new phase of the relationship is over to hang out in a group setting so the pressure isn't just on you to make conversation.