I rarely get matches to begin with and I'm not even unattractive. It. Makes. No. Sense. My time is valuable. It's not like I'm some loser that has nothing going on in life.
I don't present myself as having any sort of ego, but for the sake of my dilemma and question, I was simply stating who I am on paper. If that sounds arrogant, sorry?
Most Helpful Girl
All of the things above that you described about yourself could actually be the reason why women don't "Like" you. You may have appeared to be too good to be true, or you appeared to be true but too arrogant and intimidating.
Let's put aside the compliments I get from guys and men after seeing my pictures, but when they hadn't read my profile... I am a healthcare professional with my Bachelor's degree, and I have a respectable profession, but honestly, do I think that a man who's handsome, dressed in-style and fashionable, makes a lot of money, with a successful career, will have his eyes on me? ... No... I think that he would think nobody could match up to him, although I don't understand why he would spend his time there, because I've created a man profile before and what I saw in other girls, was either cashier as a job, and/or no college degree, or wanting to "have fun," etc. So can anyone really match up to a successful man?
It also depends on what your profile says about you, and what you're looking for. If you're a handsome, successful man looking for "fun" while an "attractive" woman (in your definition) is looking for long-term, then she's not going to swipe right.
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Most Helpful Guy
I don't think you should brag like that, it's not a good approach. Though I will say that if it was a woman in your situation people would sympathize with her, yeah. However I can understand the root of your frustration to some degree. Ultimately women on dating sites and apps treat men like a meat market. They don't care if you like them, it's about if they like you. They have a very large I-can-take-my-pick mentality.
These sites were made for both single men and women but ultimately they really just empower women and feed their ego, and I think that even translates over to their real lives in how they treat men in real situations.
I still think it's better to meet women in teal life.