Most Helpful Guy
I saw a really funny poster one time, it was a bunch of hot girls hanging all over farm equipment. The poster said, "They just found out a tractor cost more than a BMW".
Farming is seasonal. When it is planting and harvesting time, the work is from sunup to sundown, and sometimes longer. But the rest of the year, time can be flexible (unless there is livestock).
Why are you complaining about him not going to see you? He should be the one complaining that you are not going to see him. You could sit with him in the tractor and keep him company (and mess around if you want).
Most Helpful Girl
Do what makes you happy.
Stay with the person who makes you happy.