He asked me out after that and we had fun time drinking (our common interest). He kept telling me I'm so pretty and asked me if I want to travel with him. I was so not expected for that so we just laughed out. I spent the night at his place but nothing happened. I slept on his couch cuz I was kinda defensive. I did this because he once had a really bad reputation in our 20s for being such a player.(jerk) He also dated some of my friends back in the days but I never hooked up with him. So I think I kinda didn't want to really hook up with him at this time.
The next morning he said he would ask me for a dinner date during the following week so that my friends would think that 'oh the guy you are seeing is a good guy' and he said he would call me. So I waited. I was excited and worried at the same time. Complicated feelings. However he never called that week no texts for 3 days.
On the 4th day, he messaged me and coincidentally, I was hanging out at his hood. So we met up. He asked me why I didn't contacted him for the last 3days, and I said I was expecting for his call but he didn't so I just considered him very busy.(I kno I shouldn't presume.) And he said he didn't call me cuz he didn't hear from ME! Anyways we drank again at his place and we talked a lot. He told me he likes me and that he thinks we have good connections and stuff. Asked me how come a nice person like me has no boyfriend and I said frankly that I kinda have trust issues up on guys bcus of my past relationships and bla bla. We laughed a lot, we kissed and when he tried to make a move to take my clothes off, he asked me what I want. I said, I don't really want to have sex with him unless we are in a relationship.
He said it's way too early and has to see if we are good feed to each other.
I know I didn't have feelings in the beginning but I started to like him at some point. and this has been a month now, and we met twice a week every week. Should I just let him go? or just be around as a good friend?
I want him to ask me for a proper date if he's real but can't really tell him. And I kinda have feelings that he has other girls too. Do you think he has feelings for me at least? or just playing around with me?