This is dating like we have been on a few dates. We're not in a relationship, and he knows this.
We met online. We've been on two dates, and he IMs me every night and we talk a bit. I know from being around him enough that I'm not really into him. I like talking to him online, but I don't want to keep going on dates. I know he's going to ask me again, how do I say no nicely? I think it would be mean to just block him, or to keep giving excuses for why I can't hang out.
How can I be straightforward without being mean?
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Drop the hammer and be blunt. If you try and be nice he might mistake your kindness for a chance at a shot down the road. If you know it's not going to work it's best to be to the point and honest. Don't worry about sparing his feelings. He'll thank you for it in the long run.