Why would a guy want to know if you would like to go out but not ask you?
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Seems kind of strange he would ask and then not follow through once you told he you were up for it. Maybe it was just to stroke his ego and make him feel better about himself knowing you were interested but did not have any intention on actually asking you out. Hopefully he is just being shy and will come around and ask you out properly.
Maybe he doesn't have the money or time to take you out on a date? For as long as women spend getting ready for dates, guys spend even longer, because of all the planning that we have to do beforehand.
It could be that he really likes you and is scared to mess up the friendship that you already have. Or he could be very romantic and get confirmation on the subject then plan to ask you in a sweet way.
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