Boyfriend of a year KEEPING HIS OPTIONS OPEN?

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Been with my boyfriend for a year. The issue I have is with his Instagram. He keeps adding and following random local girls. Locked accounts and unlocked accounts. He also likes girls selfies all the time. I woke up one morning next to him and turned to see he was checking his Instagram messages. I didn't see anything on it (I was too far away). So I don't know who he talks to on Instagram. Our relationship is good, we get on really well. He always tells me he loves me but it seems he is keeping his options open? :(
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  • Instagram is just porn for most guys, if doesn't really speak to his faithfulness.

    Now if he's DMing these girls that's a different story, but I wouldn't worry about him just liking photos or following hot chicks

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    • See, I don't know if he is DMing any of those girls. I don't snoop or check his phone.

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    • I think I trust him. He literally tells me he loves me all the time. I see him most days after work. Like there is no other sign he's doing anything. He said one time (while he was drunk lol) that he thinks he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. So you can see why I'm confused by his behaviour

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    • Yeah, in that case I think he's just using it as a different kind of porn. For some of us, things like Instagram work better than porn because porn is so fake and obviously produced, where as real girls on Instagram is genuine. So if a real girl is posting shots of her in a bikini or something, for some people that's a bigger turn on than some overdone pornstar.

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  • Sounds like he’s a loser. Might want to talk to him about it and give him an ultimatum. No women deserves that amount of disrespect. Future or current cheater you have there

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  • I think you should chill. A year isn't long to be with someone. I was similar with my girlfriend. It faded away for me, now I dont even think about other girls crap. But I still scroll IG to see butts, doesn't mean I dont love my girlfriend. I just love big butts

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  • Controlling much? Why don't you trust him? Instagram is just a platform where hot girls exist. Let him be. It's not letting his options open but just having fun with his social media.

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    • Dont be a cuck she isn't controlling

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    • Men can craft kinky bitches out of normal girls

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    • Well, what can I say, just be forward with him. Since he's boyfriend of the year, ask him about it.

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  • If the pictures are of local chicks who pose as nudes, and you two are in a sexual relationship, then just know this boyfriend is not husband material. Unless you're fine with been cheated on.

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    • Agreed

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    • They're literally ordinary girls. Not models. So I don't get why he follows them if he doesn't know them

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  • Guys go to car sales lots without the intention or means of buying a car. Try not to make issues out of nothing but it wouldn't hurt to adress these issues and see what he says and how he reacts.

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  • That's good he's keeping available options, no one should get into a straight jacket just for a person

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  • Hmmm... backup plan. What's yours?

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  • I dont know just stick with it

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  • I would not be okay with That! You deserve to be with someone that makes it only about YOU. Makes you feel safe and secure and like you're the only one for him. This seems disrespectful to me and if he took you seriously he would not be doing this.

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