Most Helpful Girl
You did the right thing, and I'm glad that you were strong enough to just say bye, especially before anything go too serious. He didn't sound like he cared much or respected you enough to meet and actually talk, which seems fishy to me, I just hope that you're okay, you will find somebody that you won't have to ask to try and work things out with, they will do it because they genuinely care. Good for you, he sounds like a right jerk! He will soon realise his loss! Chin up you sound like a smart lady :)
Most Helpful Guy
Oh boy. The wavering, string a person along guy. Forget him. Really.
His actions seemed odd enough to cause me anxiety while reading it!
There is no need to be friends with a person like that.
Easy to say, but try to put it out of your mind, and move on with new confidence. Lesson learned from this guy.
You did the right thing.
Good luck, and please don't contact him. It'll be just more ridiculousness.